信任

Tuesday, December 15, 2009 posted by walters

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在私底下,我很容易相信他人,只要坐在一块吃个饭或喝杯茶,我便会打开天窗,天南地北,甚至于交心。就因为这个弱点, 我已有无数次被同事拿我的“投诉”当“人情”卖给老板,结果可想而知。我一再的告诉自己,同事不可当朋友,因为牵扯到利益关系, 但总是改不了,一错再错,成了我的死穴! 

在公事上,我却是个容易起疑心的人,任何商业伙伴或同事作奸犯科和走漏洞时,总是被我发现。我不会轻易相信工作伙伴,会把各项目从头到尾紧紧地跟进和把关,当然错误的机会因此减至最低。 

这种疑心的敏感度来自于我的“第六感”,在心里总是有把声音把我的警觉性敲醒,让我侦察错误。不过,在一定的范围内,我还是会给予团队“自由度”,我不重视办事的过程(除非是违法),只在乎结果。 

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在维系情感,信任是最重要的元素。 一对恋人若不相信对方,大家犹如在“爱情的桎梏”里谈恋爱;被怀疑的那方,失去了行动上的自由,起疑心的那位,在思想上也被禁锢!在那么狭隘的空间里,爱情又岂能滋长?又如何爱得痛快? 

人真是复杂的动物,经常自相矛盾;说愚蠢又不全然,论聪明又不全面。 在公在私,我居然会有如斯的不同个性, 让我自己也无从理解。我经常安慰自己说,至少公事上的精明能弥补私底下的不设防!很阿Q是吗?哈哈! 


13 Responses to “信任”

  1. 北风 Says:

    我经常和朋友、同事天南地北无所不谈,但是,工作上的事却极少和朋友提及。没办法,太多机密的东西,多话会说漏口的!

  2. walters Says:

    北风兄,

    你这种做法是对的,别想我经常被人Sabotage! 只怪自己城府不够深!

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